Today it is very difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. Why is that? Are we not capable of real love…
We are in pursuit of adventures and good time. We want to go out and have the best time ever, instead of being with someone who can enjoy our company in silence. We spend time together however we do not create bonding memories.
It is a known fact: no one likes a boring life. Nobody looks for a life partner instead someone who is at the right place at the right time for the time being.
It is all so inconsistent and temporary. When the passion is gone we realize not one of us is ready for what follows, for that normal life. We have lost the sense of stress-free comfort and the normal mundane because of the insatiable need for something new.
We need to clench the thirst for pleasure right now at this very moment, we crave it
When we post on social media we are used to the immediate attention by numerous likes. When we choose a career we expect recognition and accolades immediately.
When we pick the right person we expect a fairytale love. We want personal growth and maturity but all in good time.
Looking for an emotional bond takes time and a great effort. We want all of it in a blink of an eye. Nowadays our patience for many thing is wearing thin.
We are people who do not stick in one place for a long time
Commitment scare us to death. Predominantly we believe we are not meant to be in a relationships.
No one wants to settle down. The thought of it gives us the shivers so we simply do not care and stay on our own.
We despise the routine like evil curse. We want to believe we are unique and different than the rest. We do not conform to the society`s rules.
We want to lead and dominate in our relationship without realizing you hurt the other and in true love you need to set your ego aside.
We are a generation of fast and easy sex and even quicker breakups
Our generation likes to call itself sexually liberated. There is a clear distinction between sex and love or at least that is what we think. First we have intercourse and then we decide if we want to stay with the person or not.
For us sex is as easy as buying someone a drink- just a temporary pleasure. There are even specific terms like: open relationships, one night stands and so on…